I just cannot…..

My mental state drops to a very low level whenever I read about or watch any sort of abuse that involves hurting and endless mental trauma Yeah we all call it with the name domestic violence., regardless of where the violence takes place. Why is it that we, as human beings, are unable to just for once behave like rational beings and realize the anguish that comes along with any individual’s torturous way of life? When I consider the circumstances surrounding Mandeep Kaur Sandhu, I get a tight feeling in my chest, as if it were going to burst. What drove her to feel compelled to act in such a manner? because society was never prepared to listen to her perspective and was never going to assist a woman who wants to live a life free from abuse and enjoy a normal existence. She has mentioned “I am done, I cannot tolerate this anymore, I don’t want to leave my children but I just cannot take it anymore I am gonna go” to perish while putting her two children in the care of that awful being was not easy for her.
In light of her legal circumstances and the fact that many of us have watched all of those tapes in which he is shown to have assaulted her to such an extreme degree. I have been going through a lot of emotional turmoil as a result of it, and I am unable to go back to my regular schedule because of it.

There is a link between the tens of thousands of posts that are made on Instagram and the unfathomable amount of videos that are uploaded to YouTube. At the very least, we are grateful that her issue has been taken into consideration, although what about the millions of other people who are going through hell just to hold on to their IZZAT(Respect)? I was browsing YouTube when I came across a comment that stated, “I have no idea how I will go through this; the idea of getting married is so upsetting to me that I cannot even begin to comprehend it.”The young lady’s plight is compounded by the fact that she is clueless regarding her destiny. In addition, there are tens of millions, if not hundreds of millions, more girls who are whenever a situation very much like the one in question is discussed in the media.

What exactly are these people who are physically abusing the people they vowed to stay with? The idea that you or your family selected your partner and compelled you to spend the rest of your life with them is something I’ve had enough of hearing and reading about.

I am so sad; my thoughts and prayers are with the girls. What are you anticipating they will believe when they are older and have read about this? If there is a guy in their lives, do you think they will ever be able to come to terms with the fact that there is a man in their lives? The capability that they have in this regard is significant. Having to witness their mother end her life. They will soon start to feel uncomfortable with people of the opposite gender, which will lead to a variety of negative outcomes.

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Manpreet Lubana

I’m a reader at times also a good French learner and a full-time literature Student who loves to picture certain feelings into words in course as well as life.